DO SWINGER RELATIONSHIPS REALLY WORK?
How do you convince your partner to swing.
This is a very common question. Swinging is not for everyone and maybe it’s not for you or your partner. Before you try to convince your partner to swing, you should examine all your reasons why you want to swing. If you want to swing just to get more sex, then do not bother. Swinging is a lifestyle. If you want to help your partner realise their fantasies as well as enjoy yours, if you want to share the most special part of your life (your partner) with others, then you should start talking to your partner about swinging . Maybe you will not need to convince your partner. Often it is enough to tell them that you have fantasised about it. Honest and open communication is the key that opens all the doors.
The first step is to share your fantasies. Be open to any questions and be ready to explain why you want to swing. If your partner is against the swinging lifestyle, then back off. You will not succeed by forcing your partner into doing something that only you want to do. However, if you tell your partner your fantasies and you both become horny, you will have additional opportunities to discuss your desires.
WHAT ARE SWINGERS?
Social sex swinging is fun, being known as “that lifestyle.” First activity is a couple (male / female), but occasionally may include single men and women. Bisexuality among women is common and generally accepted by this lifestyle, but male bisexuality is less common.
Rules of Swinging
“No” means “No”! If you cannot respect the wishes of others then swinging is not for you!
Saying “No” is not an insult. It may simply mean that the other party is not ready yet.
It can also mean “Thank you, but I’m not interested.”
Saying no is the privilege each swinger. Rejection can be personal – or not, something we as adults have to deal with!
Conversation
Not all people head straight to bed. Many prefer get to know each other a bit first. Remember, attraction is not always just physical. It is sometimes important to talk to each other beforehand! Do not be too concerned about what you think lies under the opposite sex pants! If one partner does not feel comfortable with you, most likely, you will not go to bedwith any of them!
Communication
Learn to communicate openly! Do not be afraid or embarrassed to discuss your dislikes and desires. Being prepared will ensure a more intense experience for all involved. It is also customary to introduce people to each other, thus others will see you are friendly and polite.
Hands
Pay attention to your hands! Make sure they are clean and manicured. Do not let your hands wander uninvited. Take your time before touching other people on their breasts or bottom.
Tips for single men
Do not stay in the bar thinking that other people will wait for you
Introduce yourself, be polite, a lady should always be complimented sincerely.
Do not expect too much from the first meeting with a couple. Some couples never consider making out on the first date, but after the 2nd, who knows?”
Find common interests. Never discuss politics. No matter how educated and informed you are, try to be a good listener.
Be direct, but not crude. You are all there for the same purpose and there is no need to apologise.